A couple of co-workers from my company’s Sales Development team asked me what they should be talking about when they reach out to a potential customer to try and get a meeting. I asked about their current talk track and listened as they told me about the latest feature. I winced at hearing about the bells and whistles, the knobs and the dials.
They were a bit stunned when I said, “I wouldn’t talk about any of that.”
This is a team with some pretty amazing stats in terms of booking meetings with potential customers. Still, I’d listened in on some calls and thought I might be able to offer a technique to increase their success rate.
“If it’s me, I’m not talking about the product at all. Follow the script, for now, and we’ll work on it over time. Just know I wouldn’t be talking at all about the product.”
One of them asked, “Really?”
“Really. I’d call, introduce myself, and launch into how I’m calling to see if you’ve got 20 minutes in the next week or so to meet with Jim Bob Sales Rep to discuss the 3 biggest challenges their peers are facing today. No products, no slides, Jim will just share some of the major pains your peers are facing. If you’re facing even 1 of them, like some of our customers were before signing up, then Jim can set a follow-up meeting to discuss our solution. Then I’d ask for a day and time. Like, ‘How’s Thursday at 2pm look for you?’ Don’t ask for a meeting, just assume there’s going to be one.”
Another moment passed by as they contemplated the strategy.
“What if I don’t know the customer’s problem?” one of them replied.
“What do you mean you d… of course you know their problems!” I shot back. “We hear the same problems from our customers all the time! The same problems are why they buy. What do you hear in healthcare? Write it down. What do you hear in finance? Write it down. Same for everyone. Put it all down. There’s your cheat sheet for the next customer in the same industry. In any industry.”
“Look, I was a customer once, right? So pretend I’m your potential customer. I’m busy solving a hundred other problems. Why would I talk to you if you have nothing to offer? You’re asking for 5 or 10 minutes to bombard me with questions about my current approach or just pitch some features? I’d hang up on you.”
They nodded in agreement.
“Shouldn’t you just assume that since I’m not yet a customer I must have the same or similar problems as others in the same industry have had?”
And just like that, lightbulbs.
Your customer has a pain point that your product addresses. You know what those pain points are and how to overcome them because you’ve done it dozens or hundreds of times. Don’t sell products. Don’t sell features. Don’t pitch bells and whistles. Sell on being knowledgeable in your customer’s industry and having experience with overcoming those problems.
Imagine you’re in the New York area in 1805. Traveling to Philadelphia takes you roughly a day and a half. You must stop to refuel – yourself, your companions, the horses, and so on along the way. Compared to today, travel is slow, uncomfortable, and fraught with risk. Only one century later, railroads have spread across the country, like fire across a wheat field, and your travel time is cut to only several hours. Better yet, you don’t have to pay much attention any more, at least not once you board the train. But soon, just a couple of decades more go by and then there is that damnable automobile, and while it brings you far greater mobility it again steals your time away from more productive things.
Back in the modern day, travel by rail is still a widely-used mode of transport within and across many developed nations, but travel by automobile is the clear winner due to the greater access it provides. People drive across towns, cities, states, and countries. The average American drives roughly 13,000 miles per year as of mid-2016, according to the US Federal Highway Administration, all working out to roughly an hour a day per American. Looking at data from several European nations, a 2012 European Commission (pdf) study uncovered a daily automotive commute of about 40 minutes per day, per person. All of these cars and roads and parking lots take up enormous amounts of space. All for little more than the draining away of millions of collective hours per day and millions of acres of land.
Self-driving cars will return some of this time, and some of this space, but by themselves they are not the future. And they certainly aren’t the 21st-century equivalent to the “Space Race”. The ‘Race, for all its great scientific achievements, was a race between superpowers seeking to claim technological superiority over one another. For Elon Musk of Tesla, for Jeff Bezos of Amazon, and for the many other lesser-known champions of the actual movement going on all around us, it isn’t about one country proving superiority over another, and it’s not about just automating transport. It’s about something far greater.
For now, let’s focus on the self-driving cars.
Imagine you’re in the New York area in 2027. You wake up, perhaps an hour later and better-rested than you had to 10 years ago. You have some breakfast, feed your kids and send them off to school. You take the dog out to run around the larger yard you have as you no longer have a need for a garage or a driveway.
You tap your watch, your glasses, perhaps a microcomputer in the back of your hand or forearm if that’s the way things go, or maybe you simply speak, but through whatever method a car just shows up. It takes you where you tell it to take you. You pay a small fee and get there in half the time it took you in 2017 because there is no traffic. You might even get there in a quarter of the time because there is no traffic and the car is so safe it can travel at 100 MPH or more. Perhaps you intentionally pay for the “slow trip” at half price to enjoy the scenery while you start your work day during the ride into work sinceyou don’t have to pay attention to driving any more.
You get into the city. The car drops you where you told it to and speeds off. You go about your day. You had such a stress-free experience in the morning, which will almost surely lead to a longer natural lifespan, that you’re much more productive through the morning. As lunch time approaches, you leave the office and walk across the street with some colleagues without having to wait for walk signals because the few cars up here just flow around you. Most of the traffic that used to be in the city has been moved underground over the last few years, leaving you with yet another stress-free experience. You notice fewer car parks than there used to be, all replaced by more useful real estate: more offices, apartment buildings, restaurants. More regular ‘ol, green-spaced, people-parks to relax in, you think. You go back into the office and eventually your work day ends. Maybe you work longer than you used to since you’re home in 5 minutes instead of the old 30-minute trip only a decade ago.
The future I’m alluding to will be even more different than proposed here, but I’m intentionally keeping the framing small for now.
Back again to the modern day. Looking forward it’s not self-driving cars that are the future, though they are clearly a step in the right direction. The real future movement, and it’s going on right now, isn’t a race for dominance to see who builds the plastic-and-metal box that can get us from point A to point B (that race has been over for a while now and Tesla won, although we could argue the meaningful part of that race is mass acceptance or mass utilization of automated transport). It’s not actually defined by any single one of the many more technologies coming this century that play a role in it. Technologies that may democratize our energy production and our physical product creation. Others that may enable us to work and connect both more closely and yet across greater distances than ever before. Still others that may mean we never again leave a single person to suffer hunger or homelessness. And then there are those inventions and innovations that will let us take our next bold steps into that place that Sir Arthur C. Clarke once called, “the sea of stars”.
If you think self-driving cars are this century’s ‘Race, think again. New technologies are coming that will radically reshape our very concept of the world and our abilities to create, to connect, and to communicate. The real race is not about a box, once a rocket and now a car, that takes us from A to B and shows off some nation’s might. It is, instead, driven along by those advances that will free up our collective time and space. The real 21st-century race is about leading the next great expansion of human civilization.
I’ll be writing more on each of these coming technologies, several already realized and others still in their infancy, in the weeks and months to come.
Whether it is your spouse, your kids, or just your roommate, a co-worker, your boss, or someone at the coffee shop or the lunch stop, I’m willing to bet that at least one person, every day, asks you how you’re doing.
What do you say?
“I’m good, how are you?”
“Eh alright, how about you?”
Have you ever asked yourself afterward, “did I mean it?” Did you? Are you actually just OK? Are you really just “eh”? Or are you only saying something easy in order to move on, to get past the question, to go on with the day?
What if what you tell others about how you feel is really what you are telling to yourself?
What if what you’re saying is actually responsible for your self-image? Would you try something, even just for one month, if it meant changing how you saw the world for years to come?
The late Zig Ziglar, motivational speaker and sales trainer extraordinaire, believed so strongly in the power of positive thinking, and convinced so many others of it’s power, that he built an empire around it. He famously repeated this phrase at nearly every speaking engagement he ever held:
You are what you are, and you are where you are, because of what has gone into your mind. You change what you are, and you change where you are, by changing what goes into your mind.
Every day for years, for probably twenty years, someone asked me how I was doing. Always my answer was, “Good” or, “good how you doin?” It was just a response. Especially in first few years after my dad died, I just wanted to give an answer and move on. At some point I caught myself just after my response. Was I really just good? Why? Was I not good? Was I better than good?
How could I get to great?
I remembered the words of Zig Ziglar. I’m not sure when exactly, but one day someone asked me how I was doing and I answered with, “You know what? I’m fantastic. Thank you for asking. It’s pretty amazing being me! How the hell are you?”
My life would soon change completely.
Not overnight but little by little, answer after answer, day after day, like building a sandcastle one grain at a time, eventually I felt fantastic. I feel fantastic right now! I’ll feel fantastic tomorrow and the next day, because that is what I tell myself. I changed what I put into my mind and, as a result, it changed who I am.
All of us have history that the rest of us will never know. We’ve all got struggles. Some far more than others. We each have luxuries that many millions of others don’t and we’re all missing out on one or more things many millions of others have. We don’t get to choose the family or the country we are born into, our body, our mind.
But, for most of us at least, we do get to choose how we feel. One of the easiest ways to make that happen is to change the story you tell about yourself.
Because you aren’t OK. You aren’t good. You aren’t alright. You aren’t eh fine.
You’re the product of an infinitesimally tiny probability of outcomes, each chance smaller than the next, all happening on a speck of dust that’s hurtling through the stars.